Living with my parents again has been an interesting experience. At first I thought that it wasn't going to be any big deal, we're just living with my parents right? It took me awhile to figure out what this experience was doing to my relationship with my husband. I hadn't realized that God built men to feel a need to provide for their families. This was exactly what Derek was feeling, but I didn't understand. God has been using this time to teach me about my husband, and to teach me that my marriage isn't all about me. (Funny thought right?!) After I took the time to set aside my selfish feelings and learn about his feelings....I feel like I understand him a little bit better. (Another funny thought.)
Now that this situation may be coming to an end soon, I have been thinking back about what this situation has taught me.
Now as an update, Derek had an interview just a couple of weeks ago and we have been waiting yet again to find out if he got the job. This is a full-time position, which would obviously provide us with more money to pay our bills. As a huge praise, God has presented me with a job that is helping to add a little extra money to our bank account each week, and is much closer so it doesn't require me driving an hour to get to work. God really does know what needs that we have, and how to provide for them. I have also learned the difference between things I want, and things I need. For instance....right now, I want my own kitchen, but I don't need my own kitchen.
I have decided though, that once I do have my own kitchen again...I will greatly appreciate it. =)
